Birth options after previous tear

Has anyone else here got any experience with having a positive vaginal birth after having a previous third degree tear? I had a severe 3c tear with the birth of my first son and have been advised that with any consecutive pregnancies that it would most likely be a c-section delivery as the likelihood of me tearing again is quite high, I just wanted to see if anyone else had been in my position and went on to have a positive experience with a vaginal birth as the thought of a c-section actually terrifies me so much that I think I’d rather deal with another tear….

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I’m having my section on Sunday, and trying to write a bunch of ‘self-care’ type things I want to do before hand.
Now I’m not talking the practical things like setting up changing or feeding stations etc. I’m talking things for you like shaving your legs or dying your eyebrows 😂
I know from my last section that I’m not gunna feel my best so I want to do everything I can to feel good! I’ve got a fresh haircut already!
So what are some things you did / wish you did before your c section?

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