DOC TRIED TO FEAR MONGER ME

THIS FRIDAY AT THE VCU THE DOC TRIED TO FEAR MONGER ME OUT OF TRYING AN VAGINAL BIRTH TELLING ME THAT IT WOULD BE ABSOLUTELY UNSAFE AND HOW IT WOULD END IN EMERGENCY SURGERY.

THAT I NEEDED TO COME BACK MONDAY FOR A C SECTION CAUSE IT WAS HER RECOMMENDATION

BTW MY MAIN DOC TOLD ME IT WAS FINE TO TRY SINCE I HAD ZERO COMPLICATIONS THIS PREGNANCY.


IVE HAD TWO C SECTIONS BEFORE THIS BUT WITH THE UPDATES IVE LEARNED WITH A VBAC I HAVE AN 85% CHANCE OF A SAFE DELIVERY.

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Hey…. You’re actually the first person I know who wants to try vaginal birth after a c section. I’ve always known or heard that once you have a c section, you can never have vaginal birth.
If your doctor said you try, then go for it. Praying for a safe delivery 💕

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