I need help

So I got offered my dream job as a teaching assistant and my partner is refusing to let me get my dbs check done it cost £61.30 if anyone would be so kind to help me out is appreciate it and I’d pay you back double as soon as I got my first pay check I’ll even send evidence that I’ve payed for if and keep you updated on when I’ll pay you back. I’m trying to get out of a toxic and potentially abusive relationship and keep my baby safe

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Your employer will pay for this unless you are working for an agency.

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It is. I've been there but it was a means to an end.

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Do you have any friends that can lend you like £10 each?

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Could something come up on the dbs connected to him?

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Surely you must have friends or family that can help you… I sincerely doubt anyone on here is going to send a total stranger money even if it is only £61.30

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I need help

So I got offered my dream job as a teaching assistant and my partner is refusing to let me get my dbs check done it cost £61.30 if anyone would be so kind to help me out is appreciate it and I’d pay you back double as soon as I got my first pay check I’ll even send evidence that I’ve payed for if and keep you updated on when I’ll pay you back. I’m trying to get out of a toxic and potentially abusive relationship and keep my baby safe

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