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In my opinion, no. I don’t understand how men could literally just lay there instead of helping out. My husband and I used to argue all the time cause I’d be pissed for him not helping.. until it finally clicked for him. Sorry girl, hopefully it gets better.

Fuck no, I’d be PISSY AS ALL HELL if my significant other had pulled that kind of bullshit. Although, I probably would have also gone upstairs when the little one took a shit and gone into the bedroom and woken him up to tell him that I was busy taking care of the other two (including the one who had kept me up all fucking night that I had JUST gotten to sleep and that the other two had just woken up after I’d FINALLY fucking gotten her to sleep because his sorry ass couldn’t drag itself the fuck out of bed to deal with them, so now, I was taking care of those two and his sad ass needed to get the fuck out of bed and go wipe his daughters ass (and yes, that is the language I would have used at that point. Decorum goes out the window with anything less than 4 hours of sleep minimum. I’d also read him the riot act for being so uncouth, biased and discriminatory, not to mention disrespectful, unimaginative, crude and crass as to use the word ‘retarded.’ With ALL of the words out (contd.)

there that he could have used to describe his (INVALID/BULLSHIT!) emotions, he just HAD TO pick one that also denigrates, disparages and belittles an entire population, who, ironically, are the kindest, sweetest, nicest, most wonderful, good hearted people you could ever have the pleasure of having in your life. The COMPLETE opposite of what he’s using it to describe.
On both counts in life, despite what he clearly believes, the world does not revolve around him. Grow the fuck up dude.