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First time mums

Would u believe this? Would you leave or stay?
Baby dad drama (pls read) I feel so angry and fed up

So I’m 11 days PP, and tbh my partner hasn’t been the best to me I’ve felt lonely my whole pregnancy and now PP he’s great with our 4 year old and newborn but with me I’ve been neglected and not bothered with for months. All the time he gets when the kids go to bed he’d rather play on PlayStation or go outside to vape

I saw on his phone that this girl had requested to follow him on instagram and asked him he said he had no idea who she was and it’s nothing. Later I saw that he actually requested to follow her first as it said “accepted your follow request” but he wasn’t following her.. I went mad and asked and he said he Dosent know how that happened cos he never followed her and I’m just like wtf.. so he told me he woke up and deleted it before I saw it. Now he’s lied and hid something, idk what to believe.. I know this sounds pathetic but we’ve had so much, a girl ringing him at 5am in my pregnancy and she tried making out it was a mistake etc, then before someone else he replied to and made out it was a mate even tho there was nothing in it, There’s always something happening his end but never his fault he says etc and wriggles his way out of it. What would you believe and most importantly ur advice on what I should do? I’ve lost all trust now.. like I said this has happened a few times now