Is 3 in my 40's crazy?

I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old- both full of beans boys. Im 44. We are considering a 3rd as this was our original plan and we love being parents but I just dont know if Ive got the energy! We did IVF and still have 2 embryos, so it would mean planning another embryo transfer. I am young for my age but we have no support. Its just me and my husband and he has adhd so is quite a handful himself. I really want another baby but my head says its not logical. But sometimes I wonder if we're overthinking it and are worrying about what it looks like to others. Im really torn.

Is anyone else in the same boat? Am I being selfish?

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Positive!

So we ttc for a couple of months after I was given the all ok from an operation of cyst and ovary removal, it wasn’t happening despite everything. We decided to give up and wouldn’t bother, we have 3 children. Then something in me just told me to test yesterday, so I did! I have never seen it so early, go so dark and show up so quickly! Roughly 4 weeks & 4 days. 3 days late for my period. Is it normal for it to be so dark this early???

Positive or negative

Do I just have line eyes is this positive or negative? I have had my boobs leaking out milk too Thanks

Confused!

My cycles are regularly 28 days. I had sex on CD12. I had a positive ovulation test on CD23. Negative pregnancy test on CD24 (possibly 11dpo). Negative ovulation test on CD24. Did I just ovulate late this month?

Could I have missed my peak?

Could I have missed my peak? Today I’ve had stretchy discharge so I’ve taken a LH Test and it’s come back 0.08. I’m cycle day 15. This is my first cycle since miscarriage mid Feb. I haven’t used any lh strips this cycle but thought I would do one today as having stretchy discharge. Could I have possibly missed it?

Driving

When did everyone start driving again?
Did you wait the full 6 weeks after your doctors review or start sooner when you felt well to?

Thinking about baby number 2, but worried about potential PPD again

Hi everyone. I think I'm just looking for some reassurance here. I suffered with PPD after giving birth to my firstborn son, and I don't think I realised what I was going through until about 6 months. I'm thinking of starting TTC for a second child, but I worry so much about falling back into that awful headspace again. I do feel like I'm more aware of what to expect and how to better take care of myself, but there's no certainty that it won't happen again and I worry about that, especially with having a child already and how it could potentially impact them.

Has anyone been through this that can offer some reassurance please?