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My husband and I have been having problems he cheated on me with some coworkers last year I decided to stay for several reasons but of course I’m not the same with him anymore and now he stays I’m not affectionate with him etc but one thing I have noticed is that if I do something he will do the same and say well you did it so I did it too it can be something simple as me taking a pic he will take one too, I put my TikTok following on private because I would see he was always looking at my profile so I saw that he did it too this was how I came to the conclusion that he copies everything I do and says he did it because I did it. Like this can’t be normal right?? I’m trying to get some stuff right in my life so I can leave because sometimes I get scared and I have no family to go to so yeah…

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Anyone else having issues with their mother in laws?!? We use to get along great and now I can’t stand her. With are 3 month old I tell her how I want things done she waits till I’m busy with my 9 year old or I’m in the shower and does the complete opposite of what I asked and then yesterday had the nerve to cuss me out while holding my 3 month old . I wanted to kick her out my husband told me I should have but I didn’t manly because I didn’t want my 9 year old daughter to be upset. Idk what I should do but thanks for letting me vent

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When did everyone potty train their kids? My LG is 24 months and very good at talking and understanding. I started potty training her but have had people comment they think it’s too early? I thought it was about normal?

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My son’s school shared some photos of him playing in a tutu and having fun, and I usually like to try and buy whatever it seems like his favorite things are at school to have at home too. I’m considering buying him a tutu because why not, just was curious….would you do the same?

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My BIL turns 40 in June, his wife messaged asking if we would be joining for the trip, but I cant becauae by then I'll be 36 weeks and do not want to risk travel. Husband declined as well. W

Well today BIL wife messaged my husband asking for sure he can't make it for like a day or two? And honestly I knew this was going to come up. He hasn't decided and we will be talking it over, but why does it make me mad that she would even ask again? I know if she were in my place she wouldn't have her husband travel across the US when she is that far along

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My son (born 17th September) makes my life so difficult. He cries non stop, I can't do anything for my other children, contact naps, can't even have time to myself in the evening because I put him in bed (we also cosleep) and he keeps waking up because I'm not there. This baby was unplanned and most days I just feel so fed up and think about how life would've been great now with my other kids at a great stage. It's stressful for me and them, the poor kids are my only support with my partner at work literally from morning till they go to bed. I'm on my own with them pretty much 24/7. He cries so much I actually feel like throwing him across the room. I never would but that's how he makes me feel inside. Any advice? I know it passes, I'm sure my first was like this until 9 months and then got a bit better but seriously this is hell

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