I don't feel like a mommy anymore

Long story short I had my baby in 2023 I took care of my child I was a stay at home gf and a stay at home mom while me and my baby daddy broke up and I had trauma and had to deal with multiple hospitalizations due to ppd ( just didn't take care of myself but was taking care of my child and focusing on my child ) well as of last year I got hospitalize again then him and my family conspired against me and basically took my child from me he basically changed his doctors changed everything (not to mention my baby daddy and now my child live 6 hours away in another state ,and I have no car no way of getting him ) he also changed all the appointments I had set for my child development he also changed my son insurance from mine to his without my permission ! I had for my had in place for my child . He worked a lot so he pays daycare to watch our child but I been out of the hospital for months now begging and pleading to see my child but he refuse and make ever excuse for me not to see my child !! He use to shit on me about not having a job and only taking care of our child when we was together and we was broken up and now he saying I didn't contribute to anything and not I'm not contribute to raising my child And sayin I don't do nothing for him now that he raising him and I'm like tf !! I just don't know what to do and I don't even feel like a mommy anymore ..

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How’d he even get custody? Did he go through the court or just take him? You’ll always be a mommy, you love and want your child back. You’ll need a lawyer

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no courts my family gave my child to him and he took him 😤🥹 I miss my child so much !!! Idc cause my family seem to be on side 😤I basically have no one . I don't have job or a car but I got love and a little support but not from the people that matters or in the situation

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