Worried about trying again

I have a little boy who is nearly four, recently miscarried with my 2nd pregnancy and am worried about trying again in case it happens again. Me and my husband really struggled to come to terms with the miscarriage. I miscarried at home naturally and it was quite traumatic so my husband has said he doesn’t know if he could see me go through it again. My question is has anyone had a successful pregnancy after miscarriage. You see alot of people on here having multiple losses and I’m not sure if we can go through that! Wanting some positive stories if possible

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Hi, I miscarried march last year naturally at home at 8 weeks 4 days. Got pregnant again in may very easily. You’re extra fertile for the 3 months after a loss. Had a very stressful scary pregnancy but also very healthy and had my boy in febuary!

I only say stressful as I was scared it was going to happen again but having one loss doesn’t mean you’ll have multiple

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Miscarried at home 26th Jan last year, gave birth to my little girl 22nd Jan this year🩷

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