A- "hey babe, the kids have had lunch, is it okay if I have a shower?"
B- "hey babe, I'm going to have a shower, can you please make the kids lunch"
Vote C if you don't currently shower alone.
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We currently still shower together however he insists I get in and started so I at least have time to just enjoy. I wouldn’t have to ask he would insist.

Knowing me I’d say the kids have had lunch and I’m going to take a shower so he knows where I’ll be but I’m not asking

Usually I’ll do it at night after they go to sleep before we go to bed but if it’s during the weekend either one of us will be like hey I’m gonna go shower are you good to watch them for a little bit. Mostly making sure they aren’t dying on the inside and being stressed. And usually either one of us will be like that’s fine

I shower at night with husband after kids are in bed

I do both, and it's not so much asking permission but just phrased that sometimes