Ya'll I'm having some mixed feelings..im about to take a pregnancy test, and though my husband and I want more children having another baby at this moment was definitely not planned. We were hoping to actively try in June because we wanted a March baby. I guess I'm just asking for luck and some words of encouragement. We want a big family, I just don't want to be the reason why my 8 year old can't do a lot of stuff when we go on our vacation in June.
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Don’t be worried. The trip will still be fun and the last thing your 8 year old is gonna be thinking about is “wow look at all this cool stuff I’m missing out on cause mommy decided to get knocked up before vacation” he’s jsut gonna be happy to be there. Enjoy your trip!

I'm a firm believer in things happen exactly when they are supposed to. Don't stress over it, I agree with Madison that your 8 year old won't be thinking that they missed out on stuff because you are having another baby.
Any way the test turns out will absolutely be okay- if it's negative then you can continue with your plan, if it's positive then you're a couple momths ahead of plan it's still something that you wanted to happen and you are absolutely capable of adjusting to that. You sound like a great mom and I'm sure your 8 year old knows and feels that love