Possibly pregnant no judgement
I don't know what to do . I told my husband that I only wanted 2 kids. And I'm 10 weeks postpartum but I've had a postpartum period which was March 16-20th. And for 2 days I've been angry and sick just like I was when I got pregnant with my son in October of 2019 and my daughter i.had January 25th. I had an IUD place during my c section and it fell out two weeks later I was supposed to get a new birth control this past Friday but I had foot surgery March 18th and I've been in lots of pain and ofc a few times we forgot to use a condom ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ what do.i do? PLEASE NO JUDGEMENT
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Abortion, If you really don’t want anymore and you’re comfortable with it? Be more careful lol
Don’t be silly wrap your willyyy sorry I’m trying to help ðŸ˜
Well… the first thing you should do is confirm you’re pregnant. No need to panic if you haven’t taken a test.
I’d honestly just say wait it out until you take a test to actually confirm if you’re pregnant or not then go from there. I would also suggest if you haven’t already to tell your husband about your worries and things of that sort so you aren’t panicking and his words of encouragement could help the thoughts you may be having currently.
If you’re not pregnant tho and you want to only have your 2 kids, then I’d say for you to try and hurry up getting your new birth control especially since yall be forgetting to use condoms😠Having the birth control will definitely help ease your mind of the thought of being pregnant again.
I always thought I wanted 2, we now have 3 and I’m so grateful for it. Do not feel shame for not wanting #3 or if you feel you are unequipped to do this again so soon! I applaud you for holding yourself accountable and not considering abortion. If you confirm you’re pregnant, ofc seek medical advice to maintain a healthy pregnancy. But also put yourself (& don’t give up when faced with rejection) out there and seek community or support so post partum doesn’t have to be so mentally difficult. I struggled with my first 2 so baddd but everything had fallen into place by my 3rd due to trial and error with my older ones and socializing during pregnancy lol. And if you’re not pregnant,well now you know you have to change your habits to avoid another scare😂
I’d say he needs to get a vasectomy.. you’ve birthed two children and tried to get your own form BC and it didn’t work out, you did your part— sounds like it’s time to do his. Sex and baby making is a two people thing. From what it sounds like you’ve done yours and have been doing your end of the bargain. If you’re not comfortable with having more children the more forms of birth control the better. I’m talking bout vasectomy, condoms and some form for yourself. Take the things seriously as they are permanent. Once that baby is here it’s here. Let’s not let a man impregnate us further than what we intend or want to be.
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