relationship problem
i think i’m not attracted to my partner anymore. we are getting married in a few months and haven’t had intimacy frequently maybe once or twice a month. us together as parents it’s super fun like i find him fun to be around but after our daughter goes to sleep it’s like i don’t want him touching me or anything. he’s bringing up this issue to me and i told him it’s bc he hasn’t been romantic lately like there isn’t any excitement in our relationship and he hasn’t rlly put effort in changing that. i feel bad bc i don’t know how to tell him this without absolutely breaking him. i see that us not being intimate is rlly affecting him since his love language is physical touch. i’m just scared to get married and then later regret it.
fyi im 21 and he’s 23
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I will say, me and my husband are struggling with the same thing, and me and him are the same age gap and everything. We’re about to have a son and still don’t wanna be sexual with him. I think it’ll be better to pause on marriage and at least be honest with him with 1000% the truth, so that you can work on it before committing your life to each other with marriage.
Me and my husband have the same issue after I gave birth I didn’t want sex as much so I told him how I felt and now we do it once a week
Hi 41 year old mom to a 16 and 19 year old could it possibly have more to do with you are touched all day pulled at all day climbed on all day and by the time your child is down for the night you really just want to be left alone. I don't know but that's how I felt so many years ago so thought I would throw it out there. I really hope it gets better for you two.
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