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Making Friends…

I feel like before kids I always had friends to do things with and now that I have kids, the texts have slowed down and the invites are non existent. My husband and I are from 2 different areas so we haven’t made “couple” friends yet and when I go to parks or play date meets ups, everything feels so surface level. Why is making friends in your 30s and post-mom life so difficult and lonely?

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It’s sooo hard! I’m 28 & my husband is 30, and we’re in the same boat. We don’t really have any steady couple friends. I hardly have any mama friends bc I’m not on Facebook & my best friend doesn’t have kids. So I can relate. 🥲

It’s so bloody tough, heavy relate

Im 28 and feel exactly the same. I have no couple friends and 3 friends but we never go out its all group chat from a baby group in the past and then birthdays or once/twice a year we have a playdate

Yes it is i been trying to make friends but i suck at it lol

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