In your opinion when a guy says there ex used to question them a lot is there a reason for this??
Hey everyone this is a topic of debate I thought I’d use from my own relationship. So my boyfriend of 5 months it’s goin good with us. But I question him a good bit about the past or silly things. And I notice he goes mad defensive. And I said it makes him look a bit guilty but he told me his ex wife of 23 years questioned him and accused him all the time. But do you girls not think when a girl questions a guy and accuses a guy it’s usually because he’s guilty? Or has done some sort of bad behaviour and that’s why the girl questions him? He told me this is the reason why they broke up cause alls she done was complain or accuse him but I always think there’s a reason why girls do that. In my last relationship I accused my ex boyfriend of stuff because I knew he was cheating on me. Opinions please. The thing is he does seem really nice and we see each other like every night and when I over think he always says to me look through my phone if you want etc. says he has fell out with friends before over them cheating because it’s disgusting etc. always tells me he would be crazy to cheat on me because I’m beautiful etc. but the way he says his ex wife questioned him is a bit odd to me
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Could be completely innocent and the ex wife could have been in a relationship before hand that made her feel she had to question him. I could be wrong but that's another option. If you're unsure, take him up on the looking through his phone if it'll make you feel better, or ask him outright to look straight away
It's difficult to tell, sometimes people that are toxic rub off behaviours on each other so maybe it is triggering for him, maybe she felt she had a reason or perhaps she was doing something on the side and accusing him to ease guilt. You don't know until you can prove to yourself I think. If you trust him and he does do something bad, you walk away and know you gave 100%. If you're checking phones and locations and preempting issues and arguments then sometimes people think what's the point in the drama and walk away. I wouldn't want my motives and whatnot questioned all the time but if I got bad feelings and the other person got defensive or dismissive I may think that was a reason to call quits.
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