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How do u guys deal with an inconsistent dad that doesn’t help at all and only gave 10 dollars the whole time since baby been born 8 months. And he see baby 1 times a month sometimes 2. And argues and harass me but just don’t keep shit vague and come see her.and don’t even look at me .
About nothing baby related. And shorten his visits bc he didn’t wanna sit around and change diapers or feed her. And stalls and ask if I still want him to come every time it’s time to see her. Then don’t show up😭. Bc be real if he wanted to he would and he used to visit a little more stay longer and was tryna learn how to help her but he stopped. Now he just hold her ,take a picture and pack up and leave. T
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I wouldn’t give him a chance to be a father and get him for child support
Smh. Don't hurt yourself any longer.
Want better and except the fact you may be the only right person to satisfy all your needs and children’s and request for no more visitation due to you having other people and things in your life that will not allow you to meet anymore on those terms.
Just imagine if you lost all contact on purpose. I’m sure he wouldn’t expect that but do the unexpected change the outcome of your life not his !
I hope it helps. I’m living in a different scenario so I need help on that I’m not perfect but sometimes peoples advice shows you, your not crazy!
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