I am married and this is my first time having sex ever in my life. After pumping for a while, i feel uncontrollable urge to pee and ask my husband to finish quick.
Is this my orgsm ? If not when do I reach orgsm ? What if i pee ?
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I can only speak for myself but girl, that's what I feel when I'm about to have an orgasm

I experience this a lot but that's not my "Big O". For me what you describe comes randomly and can come and go multiple times whereas when I actually orgasm my whole body just completely contracts and I feel a hot flush in my head and lower body, also a fast pulse. I would think that if you orgasm you would never question if it was it or not. Don't worry though, it can take lots of time to understand your body