Where to give birth

I live in Leigh and have recently found out i am 4 weeks pregnant. I have chosen Bolton hospital because thats where I gave birth to my now 8 year old. I really can't decide if I should have opted for Wigan instead 🫠

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Ive had 2 babies at Bolton and had a good experience both times x

i had my daughter in wigan and they was absolutely amazing with me and my baby x

If you're vegetarian, don't go to Wigan. We had an awful time whilst I was in for induction because of so many issues with food. Medically they were fine, but I have ADHD and a lot of anxiety around food so this made it a lot worse.

Thank you girlies x

I had my baby at Wigan in January and don’t have a bad word to say about them. I had all my antenatal care at Leigh infirmary and they were amazing too. Xx

Also had my baby in Wigan, and they were fabulous.

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How many kids do you plan to have maximum?

I’m only asking this as several years ago, back in the 1970s - 1990s, people would have several kids compared to now
I’m born in 1994 and I remember lots of people I grew up with had loads of siblings and my cousins from both my parents sides would have eight kids in them

I don’t want to go in the process of having another baby and restarting everything. The sleepless nights, screaming, baby falling ill and everything was too much for me.

In this generation, some people are sticking to one child only or having two or three kids at maximum

How to tell my 8 year old

I have just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant (early so I have a while). I am wanting ideas on how to tell my 8 year old son. I want to pay privately for a scan around 10 weeks (not sure if to take him to this, then he can physically see). I am worried that I am going to slip up, I really just want to tell him, but I know I need to wait a bit longer or at least until I know all is ok. PLEASE can I have your ideas and timing of when to tell him? Thank you 🫠✨️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Rolling over

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Line progression

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