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Baby Daddy Drama

Advice

Hello mamas, this is my first time posting something like this and please being honest and tell me if I’m being too sensitive, sorry if this a long post also lol
My daughter (8) went to her grandmas (her father mother) and I had said only for a couple of hours and for my daughter dad to not interact with her (as hes an very abusive person even when me and him was in a relationship with or without my daughter being present) and recently his partner called me a bad mum and what not abd doesn’t like for me and him to co-parent so he does what she says and blocks me, I get nothing from him at all for our daughter. I got told my daughter spoke to her dad which I’m not obviously too keen but I can’t stop that but it’s upsetted me more that it’s happened behind my back and not been spoken about it prior, to then be told by my daughter that she never wanted to speak to him so I don’t know whats actually happened. Her grandmother brought her home like I had asked and she clearly gotten really defensive when I had told her to leave the door as I didn’t feel like I wanted or needed to speak to her at that point I needed to speak to my daughter by herself, her grandmother proceeded to scream in my face infront of my child then blamed me on why my child is crying… I’ve always felt like I’m in the wrong from being with my baby dad previously and now his mum doing to me years later, just wanted to know ladies was this my fault? I would add more detail but don’t want to bore anyone x