Anyone else pregnant again?🤣

Just fallen pregnant and struggling with the guilt of taking time away from my little girl. She’d be 23/24 months by the time they are born. Can anyone relate or share their experiences?😊

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I couldn't think of anything worse honestly 🙈🙈 lol but I'm 40, she's my 3rd (and last!), and she does not sleep through the night!!!
My first two are 21 months apart and it's been amazing! Congratulations to you, don't feel guilty, you're gonna give them a friend for life! 😍😍

I am literally right there. I’m 5 weeks pregnant and already feel like a shitter mum to my 16mo - I’m so tired and emotionally all over the place and I don’t know how we’re supposed to do this while still working and being present parents.

Hopefully, we’re both just in the volatile early stages and it will even out and we’ll find a rhythm.

Sending love and solidarity sista!

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When do you start letting people know

I'm struggling to keep my mouth shut as I'm so excited but I don't want everyone knowing if something bad happens

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Announcing pregnancy

I have a question for all the moms when did you make the first announcement too your family , I feel like I wanna wait until the beginning of my 3rd trimester I’m a SAHM so I don’t really see my family like that am I wrong for wanting too wait until my 3rd trimester i just wanna have a smooth healthy pregnancy no stress no worries

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Anxiety

Im on my second pregnancy and I feel really anxious that something bad is going to happen. I never had this with my first. I haven't yet had my 12 week scan and can't get it out of my head that something is wrong. Ive got no reason to think this, but im just really worrying. Anyone else feeling like this?

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episiotomy question, anyone who’s had one please?

Ladies who have had a episiotomy how long till you have sex after birth I’m guessing safest option is defo 6 weeks like the usual ? And when did you first shave? Cos it’s killing me not doing both 🤣🤣😭but I don’t want to risk anything so prob best to wait right?

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Is anyone else struggling with start of 2nd trimester anxiety?

It's like it came on out the blue and I juat cannot calm it. I feel so unprepared and worried, and just cannot switch my brain off.

My partner isn't the most supportive, but I do have a great network in a couple of friends and my mum.

It's hard having gone from really enjoying being pregnant and looking forward to everything, to what all of a sudden feels like fear and worry.

Any coping mechanism recommendations are more than welcome 🙏

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Brushing Teeth 😫🤢

Does anyone else STRUGGLE with brushing their teeth in first trimester? Makes me want to vom especially brushing my tongue 😭 this is my second pregnancy and i feel like it’s so much worse this time

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