As I get closer to due date obviously i'm getting more nervous as a ftm, but I had a midwife app today and didn't have my usual lady. The one I had today has made me feel worse lol and tried to tell me, not suggest, to not use prep machines and asked why I'm leaning more towards bottle feed and if I've even spoke to anyone about breastfeeding and if I've bothered to attend any classes for anything. It was the way she said it
Then when feeling my stomach she says she's not sure if the baby is head down. I mentioned in my last appointment they said he was. She continued to feel and said feels like the head is up top but then just moved on and didn't mention it again š©
Now I'm feeling even worse and wondering what to do
The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.
Learn more about our guidelines.
Donāt let anyone pressure you into breastfeeding!

I have had a different midwife everytime itās been a terrible experience tbh!! Just ignore her and as the lady above said donāt let anyone pressure you. Initially I said I would BF because itās ābetter for baby etcā everything the midwifes drilled into me when actually itās not really what I want to do. Now I have made my firm decision I feel much better and happier about it, each to their own I have my own reasons for wanting to bottle feed, stick to your guns whatever you want to do x