I’m due my second baby towards the end of the year.. I found the first time around soo hard for many reasons and still don’t find it much easier now and he’s 18 months old. Sometimes I think I’m crazy for having another so soon when I still struggle a lot.
If you have 2 children, did you find it harder going from 0-1 child or 1-2 children and why?
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I just had my second and this time round is a breeze!! It’s my toddler that’s the problem 😂

It's swings and roundabouts really. You have confidence in your abilities because you're already a mum but unless youe oldest is at nursery there is no chill. When baby sleeps you still have a whirlwind to contend with 😂 you'll be fine though 💪

As said above, it’s easier because you know what you’re doing but then in other ways it’s complete chaos because you have 2 little people with different needs. I personally found 0-1 harder because it was a complete shock to the system the massive responsibility and loss of “freedom” 😂😂 but when my son came along it was just more madness as my daughter is already feral enough 😂😂 you’ll be ok, and once they start playing together it’ll all be worth it ☺️☺️