going soft during sex

sorry idk if this is tmi but i started dating this guy 2 months ago, so it’s still early but we’ve had sex a few times and it’s always been really good, until last night where we were having sex for about an hour, he didn’t cum and then went soft whilst we were having sex.. i just feel so insecure like it’s my fault. i literally started crying after because im worried he doesn’t find me attractive. he apologised and said he doesn’t know why it happened but idk, maybe it’s just my insecurities but im worried he doesn’t find me as attractive as he says he does
he is older than me (he’s 45, im 22) so idk if it’s like an age thing, or if it’s just normal or what idk i’ve never had this with a guy before

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Definitely an age thing! Although men dont go through a change like woman things start slowing down and not working like they once did when they were 20, an hour is a long time for someone who is older

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It's literally not you, it happens to every guy eventually.
It could be a number of things including but not limited to age, health, mental blocks, or simply being dehydrated.

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