My uniform at work was too big for me before I was pregnant (I was due to order new ones after loosing weight but found out I was pregnant so kept them), so I feel like I wasn’t ’showing’ to a lot of people at work.
I’m now 33 weeks pregnant and look very obviously pregnant and I’m sick of someone every day saying “wow baby has come out of no where” “you’re so big now, it’s come from no where” “wow you’re really showing”.
I even had “are you sure there’s not 3 babies in there?”.
I just feel like it’s so rude that people keep commenting on my body, just because I’m having a baby, surely that doesn’t give people the right?! It’s also upsetting as I don’t feel my best atm anyway so people daily telling me this is dragging me down but I’m not sure if it’s me being too sensitive or not?!
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I had the same thing, people didn't realize I was pregnant until I was 34 weeks along as well.
People are just absolutely self-absorbed dummies, and will say whatever comes to their mind without the filter. It's super annoying, but just know you don't have to see those idiots for a while after giving birth.
So yes, absolutely valid, but just don't pay it any mind.