Is this considered cheating?
I'm 16 months postpartum with my daughter and my fiance has been texting an old flame from his past. He's pretending to be single. Is that considered cheating? When I confronted him he said that our lack of friendship has caused for him to do this. He's put the blame on me. I'm so overwhelmed taking care of 2 kids plus all the house work while he goes to work. How can we get through this? I feel like I don't know him anymore
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Yes šš not ok
Yes its cheating
The fact he tries to blame you shows he is guilty and tryna run from responsibilities. Honestly heās gonna figure out how to gain your trust bc thatās too much. Especially to put that in you is not ok
Definitely n no respect towards u
I would say couple therapy but him blaming you is 1 pretty clear sign there is no āgetting through thisā
Yes it is if he is telling the other woman he is single
He is emotionally cheating and possibly planning to actually cheat. Heās seeking out emotional connection from another women, even more so a romantic ex relationship. Cheating in my book. Yup. Then add lying about being in a relationship with children involved. What a gross man.
Blaming you is a shitty form of manipulation. So you now question yourself and not the fact that heās just a disrespectful twat.
You will have to have some sort of confrontation and consequences to his actions. Or he will continue as he is.
Definitely cheating
If he believes hes not cheating....want my number and Ill text you like an old lover or admirer? I did it for a girl I was on the ship with and she proved her point nicely. Ive perfected my alter ego 'James'š
Definitely crossing the line and disrespectful.
Definitely cheating
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