Hey ladies I’m a bit stressed so I been in this relationship for four years. I been knowing him since I was 13 he was even my first. I was married before and had two kids in that marriage and later I got with my current fiancé now. But boy do I wish we could have a preview of peoples true colors 😞 this man don’t go not one day without calling me names. He literally throws everything in my face That he do for me. He don’t want me to work wants me to stay home and take care of the kids, but throw everything in my face saying I don’t pay no one bill . While I was pregnant with our first child together he would hit me so much and called me names even after . On top of that I had and still been dealing with his mother and her drama along with his sister . They want him to be with his ex. They sit on social media calling the girl daughter in law and they girl is always bringing up my fiancé and all the comments and throwing shade and they just laugh or heart it. I been prayer God remove me from these people all do they is drink and smoke and sit around looking like zombies . They act like teenagers that all they do. So anyways so I left him when I was 8 months pregnant and right before I gave birth he came back looking for me. So we gave it a try again long story story we had another baby she is about to be 10 months this month. But things haven’t changed. He is such an anger person everyday. It’s like he’s bipolar. He can do something nice one min and and just take that whole moment away. But I noticed he only take me out to eat so that he can get drunk smh It’s like when he feels like being nice it’s for him. I’m just so tired of it worse mistake in my life. But I’m so grateful for my beautiful babies. But All he do is drink all day and smoke he gain so much weight as well from drinking. When we fight he always tells me to go to my moms if I want too. I just feel like he cheating as well. Although when I was pregnant with our first child together his mom and sister helped him cheat on me they got a hotel and invited his ex there and took him to come smh . She reached out to me and sent me all the screenshots and yes my stupid butt forgave him cause I was expecting 😞 boy do I feel like I downgrade so bad .he still denies it but dealing with him and his fake family is a headache.
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Leave him alone men like this won’t grow until u do , when he no longer has this access to u , when he knows he can NOOOOO LONGER CONTROL U he will grow , wether for u or for someone else he will grow ,
“You either grow together or grow apart “
Ik it would really hurt but your babies are not watching that man treat you with respect ,
They’re babies but idgaf they know body language is a REAL THING
For your sanity
And for your kids to have a better outcome with their relationships in the future , u need to leave , they will think it’s okay to be the second option when in a committed relationship , if u are unhappy , and it’s affecting u , leave , find a shelter , Salvation Army ( if u don’t work or have a home ) but think about the entire picture not just u and him but tha babies are watching yall grow part. And hurt each other verbally , all types of stuff they’ll grow up excepting as love bc who they love unconditionally are always fighting or crying , or drinking , etc etc