Baby doesnt want to be put down 😭

Moses basket and next to me wont work 😭 feel like we are doing such unsafe safe sleeping practices but if we dont we would be awake 24/7. We have tried everything

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Co-sleep in the cuddle curl. Look up the safe sleep 7 x

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Look into the fourth trimester. It's really normal for baby to not want to be put down. They don't yet realise they are a separate person to you ❤️

It starts to get better after the first 8-12 weeks.

That doesn't make it any easier now though! Sleep however you've got to to survive. Put baby on their back next to you in bed (outside) and put your arm around the top of their head and down the outside of their body. Then curl your body around the inside of theirs.

You'll be surprised how aware you are of them even when you're resting/sleeping. If baby moves or makes a sound you will wake up ❤️

At this stage you just have to do what it takes to make it through. I promise it doesn't last forever xxx

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Have you tried a ‘love to dream’ swaddle at all? Our baby wouldn’t be put down either until we put her in that specific swaddle and it honestly saved us xx

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