Breaking Generational trauma/cycles

Hello everyone! I am pregnant for the first time, 10 weeks! I am the eldest sibling in my family, and the first one on my mom side to have a child in my generation.
Before I became pregnant, I had started cutting ties and distancing myself from a lot of family, because I see how some generational traumas are continuing throughout our bloodline and I am not OK with it. Especially around discussions of safe touch and religion.

Now that my family knows I’m pregnant, I’m torn between allowing them the opportunity to build a relationship with myself in this stage of life, or continuing the distance while I figure out what I want mommy life to look like for me.

I’m wondering if anyone has had similar struggles? It feels so scary to be walking away from my family, but I’ve never fully felt like I belong, and I do not want that for my child either.

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Are my eyes playing tricks..help

Do you see two lines, is this a possibility of a faint positive ?

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Help!

Please help- i have line eyes and this is negative right?

I'm driving myself a bit crazy with pregnancy tests, i've no period back so not sure when to test but going off of when i had increase in CM and BBT.

I also feel incredibly sick but that is probably the nerves of taking a test three times a day🫠🫠

Anon because i haven't even told my partner i've tested yet!

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Negative afternoon test

I took this test this morning (2nd urinateiom) I think its positive but I took one at around 12.20pm and its come back negative. I haven't had a drink before that either. Does that just mean low HCG? I really don't want to ovwrthink or even make myself too happy atp

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Conceiving advice

Hi lads its been more than 6 months im trying to conceive but no luck
Plesse guide or advice anything that helped you please

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First ever month TTC first baby, I’m still learning.
I got two very clear negatives this morning at 8dpo. 😖😖 I’m trying to not be disheartened and telling myself it’s still possible.

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When to plan next baby?

Guys I'm 30 with a 13 months old. My baby is kind of easy going and now I think I might be ready for another one. The reason I don't want a large gap is because I want more babies and I feel I'm running out of time. I could wait if I was younger. What is the best age gap and how is it like getting pregnant in your late 30s and early 40s?

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