I'm happy with my decision that I left my ex husband over a month ago now. He was narcissistic and mean and wasn't always nice to our son but stupidly I still feel really hurt that he cheated not through sex but through video call and messaging with this other girl. I left with my son and I am staying with family and I only let him see our son when I am there at a park or soft play never on his own. I just feel he doesn't care but I want to message him to find out if he actually thinks about us or not.
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No offense about what I’m about to say and you’re probably going to take it like I’m being mean but this is just me being honest if he was so mean to your son why would you message him about rekindling a relationship and why is he having visits if it was not as bad to the point that you’re trying to rekindle he should be getting more than just visits with you i’m not trying to be mean I’m just speaking my mind

I’m so sorry that you feel that way, I know it’s not easy, just to think about making the decision of leaving is hard, and now that you did, obviously is harder because there’s still that part of you that would like things would’ve been different. Try your hardest to not message him, did you guys talk before you decided to leave?