Baby number 4

Just found out were expecting baby number 4 and im slightly freaking out! We werent trying so this is a surprise! Im not ready. My youngest is 17 months, I just got done with the baby phase and now im starting over again. 😭 Am I even going to be able to handle 4 kids? Any words of encouragement from mommas of 4?

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Congratulations ❤️ what a scary and beautiful and wild thing to have a surprise pregnancy. Both of mine were surprises, it took a while to feel “excited” and not freaking out… honestly I’m 2 months postpartum and still kinda freaking out 😅
You have 3 beautiful babies, and I’m sure you’re a wonderful mom who is doing her absolute best. They won’t be babies forever. You’ve got this!!
I’m #4 and my older sister was around the same age as yours when my mom got pregnant with me.. It’s okay to not feel ready. If you’re not already utilizing a mother’s helper, that would be the best thing! Your body will need a lot of care and nourishment, so you can help yourself by meal prepping now like you would for postpartum. Easy, nutritious meals that make your days easier when you’re having a hard day (like being sick or exhausted). Prepping freezer snacks and lunches and batch making breakfasts for the kiddos helps a lot too!

Congratulations God doesn't give us more than we can handle

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