I’ve know I was a lesbian leaning bisexual since high school, after a specific situation happened but not really relevant to this post. Basically I live in a small, conservative town where not maybe people come out as LBGTQ. Because of this, I’ve always suppressed my desire to date women and dated men instead.
Recently I’ve met a woman who moved to the area not too long ago, and she’s also bisexual, and we went on a few dates and I really like her. I liked how low pressure it felt being around her, we have a lot in common, and those initial Icks that men always give off just dont exist. I’m really excited to see where things go, but I’m also so so nervous. I’ve never been with a woman since i don’t really know any bisexual/lesbian women. I’m so scared I’m going to mess it up or not know what I’m doing. Help
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Everyone starts out inexperienced! My advice is, be super open about your nerves and inexperience. I think women tend to appreciate honesty and openness ❤️

Handle her with care, just think of what you would like and kinda incorporate what she already told if u discussed with what she likes. Like girl talk….. every woman will tell u….. you just have to find out. We also like to give direction so you will be alright!