Hi, My husband is a narcissist. I have been in this marriage for 6 years. I had a baby; after the baby, I realized and started seeing his real face. When he pinched me in my sleep, I was exhausted up all night with night feeds. While leaving for work, he tried to kiss me; I didn't kiss him back. He felt rejected and said I am using him when I needed him and not giving him back. He then stared at my baby and me, and then he pinched me and left, shutting the door loudly. He knows that will wake up the baby, so he did it purposely!! My baby is 5 months now, but it's been a mentally and emotionally exhausting journey. I can't take this anymore. I am looking to leave him.
Can anyone please suggest a good family law solicitor in the Hertfordshire area? I am seeking help!!
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Im confused he just randomly pinches you or do you mean punch ?

Hi, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Please know you’re not alone. It took me many years to realise I was also in an emotionally abusive relationship, and I know how mentally exhausting and confusing it can become.
I don’t know a solicitor specifically focused on narcissistic abuse, but I personally had a good experience with Lawhive.
Most importantly, trust your instincts and be kind to yourself. Reaching out for help is already a huge step. Wishing you and your baby all the best 🤍