Does anybody have an experience of home birth with a toddler

My first born will be just 3 years old when I'll be in labor with my second baby. If all health indicator are good I want a home birth with my toddler around. I'm 21 weeks now and plan to start to prepare him in about 3 weeks.
My first labor was a birth in my OB birth house and very beautiful.

Does anyone have experience of home birth with a toddler ?

Thanks for sharing

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How big is your house? I would love a home birth with my toddler close so she could be there right after the birth, but I would likely want her in a separate part of the house with someone to take care of her in case I was loud and it scared her

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Not yet but I have 2 toddlers about to go through it within the next week I'd say.

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No, but due to give birth in the next week with a 2.5yr old in the house! šŸ¤žšŸ»

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