Third baby?????

Debating if I want that third child lol. I already got my boy, and my girl that was born last September. I’ve always wanted more kids but once baby number 2 came, definitely changed my perspective on everything 😂 I’ll be 35 this year and if we do decide on having one more, definitely want to try before 40. Anyone else? Any mamas wanna share their thoughts on this :) no judgement here !

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I'm in the same boat, but three means you're playing zone defense instead of man on man, probably means new car, and probably a bigger house. Right now my two share a room so the third would be a lot. That being said, or September babies are already so big and I love babies and being pregnant so... 🤷‍♀️

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I didn't have time to think about it. Due Sept 2026 with baby #3 😂

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I had my baby girl in September at the age of 38 I did not want to be pregnant any older then that and I have my boy and girl also now! It’s a lot with 2 idk how I’d be with 3 tbh but I had my tubes removed so I won’t be having a 3rd even though a part of me loved the whole process of creating life and I would love to have all the babies I just know realistically for me and my family 2 is good. lol

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@incognito lol yea apparently too much fun. Thanks 🤣 😊

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I have 4 kids my first two I had them at 16 and 18 and my last two I had them at 31 and 32…I’ll be 34 this year…For me even though I was a teen mother I just never felt fully complete I never felt like I was done having kids until I had my last two..After my fourth mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually I knew I was done lol…I could be wrong but I feel like every woman has that feeling when she know she’s done having kids for good…

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Have more! I have never regretted having more children. I am 41 and pregnant now. Had my last 1 right before I turned 40.

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Third baby?????

Debating if I want that third child lol. I already got my boy, and my girl that was born last September. I’ve always wanted more kids but once baby number 2 came, definitely changed my perspective on everything 😂 I’ll be 35 this year and if we do decide on having one more, definitely want to try before 40. Anyone else? Any mamas wanna share their thoughts on this :) no judgement here !

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