Worrying

I don’t know if it’s cause my babies getting older and on the cusp of being a toddler but I keep getting this overwhelming feeling of panic like omg I’m a mum and I have to raise a child and teach them things and I don’t feel equipped to be a mum and do the mum things like I don’t know what I’m doing 😩😩😩

I think I’m being completely irrational and have learnt from having a baby that I can do it and to take each day as it comes but omg I am getting random waves of worry

Dunno if this makes any sense

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I get you. Every stage is overwhelming and now especially as their temperament / personality is coming out!

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I’m the same, I’m already thinking about potty training 🫠

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One day at an appointment she's filing my nails and she's sort of squinting and keeps going back and forth and she makes a comment about how a couple of my nails grow in a weird direction.
I never went back because I was so embarrassed even though I know its so silly and dumb, she wouldn't have meant anything bad by it I'm sure. But now I've just had my second baby and I'm thinking I need that feeling again of just having something for myself and to feel put together, and I really miss having nice nails, but I'm feeling stupidly insecure about my nails now, like if I go to someone to get them done they'll judge me or think my nails are weird 🥲 again, I know its so silly!! But I can't get it out my head and I'm too insecure and embarrassed to go for an appointment.

I thought maybe I could keep my nails really short (I do usually anyways), and just get a little extension but I don't really know how it works and what to ask for. I don't want Acrylic

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