So my man goes to work every day of course and I stay home with his daughter to take care of her and I’m currently 27 weeks & 2 days pregnant with our second. I went to his work yesterday to pick him up. I had to run in the store to get some pepto and I just met his new coworker (she’s a female) and we had a very short conversation. Next morning my man calls me while he’s at work and said his coworker called me “uppity” and for those who don’t know what that term means it’s basically saying someone acts self important and thinks they are snobby. I don’t know why or how she got this impression from me but I definitely don’t think I act self important. I always care about others even if I don’t know them. I’m just confused about the whole situation. I feel very weird and self conscious about what other people think of me anyway. I don’t know if I’m just over thinking things but I feel like she’s getting to big of a liking to my man (her man is locked up) i told him how that her immediate impression of me really hurt my feelings and made me feel like I really was acting self absorbed and snobby. Of course he reassured me I wasn’t and went on to saying “she’s been through a lot” I understand to certain extent. But that just seemed very strange and rude. Let me know what you guys think please. Am I overthinking or should I confront her?
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She’s been through a lot, watch your man he shouldn’t know what she’s been through

She is very rude actually the word is judgmental she is what she is calling you