What would you do?
So, had my beautiful daughter in august 2024 with third round ivf and previous all failed rounds with letrozole and triggers.
We were going to be trying for number 2 via frozen embryos from same batch as our daughter this year.
But I got pregnant naturally in January/february (first time ever) which was a huge shock and completely out the blue. Unfortunately baby miscarried end of March at 8 weeks but didn’t find out until 10weeks.
Im just wondering what you would do in my situation? Would you try naturally for a couple of months (even though previous history isn’t great on outcomes) or go straight for ivf again? Many thanks
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So I think it depends on how many kids you’re going to try for and what you would do with extra embryos. If you would love a big family (if all the remaining embryos took + a “naturally conceived” baby) or are ok letting go of embryos (if you only want 2 kids and you get pregnant unassisted).
What we did: our first retrieval yielded one pgt euploid embryo (our now 4 year old son). Our second retrieval gave us 4 pgt euploid embryos: one miscarriage 11/2023, our now 15 month old daughter, and 2 not transferred yet. My husband had a vasectomy last year because we don’t want to get pregnant unassisted. I can’t imagine donating or destroying our 2 euploid embryos and I don’t want more than 4 kids (never really wanted more than 3 but have started to open to the possibility of 4; yes I know my chances of going 2 for 2 are low). But then again, I’ve never gotten pregnant without assistance (all 3 of my FET were BFP, though one ended in a mc; none of my IUIs or trying for years worked)
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