Not weight bearing

Just wondering if any of your babies are not weight bearing still? My boy turns one end of the month and is yet to weight bear at all or crawl. He rolls very well and can spin himself about on his tummy to get about but no weight bearing or crawling. We have another health visitor appointment at 13 months to check progress but there’s been no progress yet since his check at 10 months.

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This sounds stressful! Can he weight bear if you stand him up? Can you request an appointment sooner?

My baby is the same. The health visitor wasn’t overly concerned when we had our review. She said if baby isn’t walking by 18 months then they’d intervene.

We’ve practicing everyday though and if we put her on us (facing us and on our legs etc) she has been improving a little by the day.

My LO wasn’t able to stand until the day he turned 11 months, we saw a physio privately when was 9-10 months as he wasn’t crawling or weight bearing but she basically said he was “lazy” 😂 Something just clicked and of a sudden he was able to stand! He’s now pulling to stand and getting more stable on his feet.

It’s so hard not to worry, but they do all develop at their own pace. Our health visitor is also checking back in with us in a few months but wasn’t overly concerned (he wasn’t weight bearing or pulling to stand when they saw him).

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