The lies just get worse

Venting since I don’t have anyone in real life to really tell anymore. I found out my husband cheated on me with 25+ while ten weeks postpartum. He told everybody we were separated when we actually had IVF. I told everybody he was sleeping with at the time we were married 14 years, had a newborn and toddler and that I was the one who just found out and filed divorce

Fast forward in March 2026 I learn he stayed with one of the mistresses the entire 2 years and denied paternity of our youngest for 19 months. I sent a video of her running up to him saying daddy and a video of me confronting him where he admits he’s her father. I was hoping at least she’d leave then for realizing the lie and went no contact with him cus clearly he’s insane to deny a child he was seeing every week and we had ivf for, but nope. She stayed by his side.

Her sister contacted me today asking for proof of him with our oldest.

I was like huh??? So apparently now he admitted our 22 month old is his, but says he never met our 4 year old. So basically said we’ve had no contact 4 years and slipped up and had one hookup resulting in our youngest.

I know I need to learn to not engage but I’m like are you fucking serious??! His solution to getting caught in a 2 year lie is pretending he had no relationship with our oldest?? I quickly sent two infant pics of them together and they came back with saying that proves nothing and send the timestamps. Now at this point I’m fed up, lol I sent 45 pics of him from Feb 2022 to Jan 2025 to show he was around our child, laying in our bed, all sorts of family picture because ma’am how are you gonna tell me my husband never met our child. We were married 14 years for lord sake

It blows my mind this woman is able to believe a man who lied to her for 19 months about paternity is telling the truth year that we were only were intimate twice in 4 years??

I hate that it gets to me. My friends I did tell are like well you went over the top by sending so many pictures but it’s just the level of betrayal. He held those babies in his arms for 4 years and he gets to say he never met them? I see my daughter crying for daddy and he gets to say he never met her and his gf stays with him another 3 months like it’s no big deal

I know karma does it thing. He actually had another son last month with someone else but the gf thinks it’s another lie. He did get sued for 15k too last week so I know things are unraveling but it’s like wtf

In what world is saying oh im a liar about paternity and a deadbeat father a solution to staying in a relationship. How does someone say yay what an awesome boyfriend


it’s sickening to me how many lies he’s told about me and my innocent girls. I’m sick to my stomach that my daughter is crying for her dad because the last time he saw her he told her he hated her in March, and now to find he’s pretending he never even met her. At least I know he should never see them again because how deep his lies go

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Sadly some women have zero self-esteem and are so deeply entrenched in the patriarchy that to have a man, ANY man, is a win to them. That man could be a mass murderer, a pedo, or any number or scum things and they will STILL stand by their sides, proudly. Just be thankful you are not them.

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