She’s 9 . We went shopping for her and she asked me to check the size of the shorts she had on, I noticed she wasn’t wearing any underwear. As a bio mom to my own little girl, this is concerning to me. Am I thinking too much into it?
I’ve purchased for her underwear and training bras (which she wasn’t wearing either) she said her mom didn’t wash laundry so she didn’t have any.
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I would straight up ask her bio mom why she doesn’t have any on

I would ask, in a way to not upset the SD, how often that happens and then send her with plenty of clean pairs of underwear back to her moms house and check the situation again the next time I had her.

I meant ask the SD. I wouldn't even try to bring it up with bio mom. Buy her underwear and send it with her.