Two miscarriages - looking for some positive stories

I am going through my second miscarriage this year. First one was found during my early scan at 8 weeks, had stopped developing at 5 weeks and I had a missed miscarriage which was managed naturally. I am now 7 - 8 weeks pregnant and found out again at my scan yesterday that I just had an empty sac and it was declared a blighted ovum. I’m due for my d&c on Tuesday. I’m looking for some positive hopeful stories of having a successful pregnancy after two losses in a row. I do have an amazing 2 year old but was really hoping to give him a sibling one day.. told myself if third time is not the charm then I’ll stop trying.

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Don’t stop trying!!! I haven’t experienced what you have, but I have had one miscarriage. I’m pregnant now with baby #2, a sibling for my 3 year old daughter.
When we were trying the first couple of months I felt in my heart that I wasn’t going to get pregnant, and I didn’t.
I think being positive, reducing stress, letting go of negative emotions is actually way more important than we think. In May I told my husband this is the month we get pregnant, because I did all that internal work and found some peace. We got pregnant.
I also prayed A LOT. Got more active, started eating better, did grounding and breath work.
You got this!!!

I’ve had five losses and now 16 weeks pregnant 🤞 ask for a blood screening and get your clotting factors, thyroid and vitamin levels checked!

Im so sorry you're going through this. Try not to give up hope, I know way harder said than done. I had 4 consecutive miscarriages between my 2nd and 3rd, 3 of them were between December and May. But then that June I got pregnant with my rainbow baby. Wishing you all the best.

I had a missed miscarriage at 13.5 weeks and went on to have my beautiful son. I have since had another missed miscarriage at 11 weeks and we are back to trying.

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She’s here!!

A bit of a late one but she was due 11th of June but baby Evangeline made her appearance on 30th May!
I had been contracting for days on end with no real pattern, on the 30th I went back into triage with reduced movement and tightenings and she didn’t meet criteria and wasn’t improving so they decided to deliver her via emergency c section that same day. I actually went into labour whilst waiting to go into theatre and was having contractions 2 minutes apart and they gave me the choice to try labour and deliver naturally or have a section, they told me I had a over 50% chance that I’d need a section anyway so for baby girls safety I went ahead with a section.
I had been hoping for a vbac this time round as my little boy was also an emergency section but this c section was so healing from last time. I was able to be awake to hear her first cry and hold her straight away, it was such a beautiful experience 💕
Welcome to the world Evangeline 💖

Baby boy arrived yesterday 💙

Baby boy arrived at 40 weeks & 5 days. Born yesterday at 10:32am after only arriving at the hospital 8:30am. Didn’t make it out of triage, no time for any pain relief either 😭. But he’s here and safe and worth being overdue for. His older sister is already so besotted with him 💙🩷

My whole world 💖

Baby Amelia arrived at 15:14 on 08/06/2026 weighing 7lbs 7oz.

I was in hospital since the 4th, tried 3 methods of induction, all of which failed. It turns out I can't actually birth vaginally as my pelvis is too small for babies heads so im glad I didn't try a 4th method and keep tormenting myself. Thankfully Amelia coped well with all induction attempts but still needed forceps as she was trying to move into my birth canal 🥹

I had such an overall positive experience in Derby Royal and im just so grateful to have my angel in my arms 💖

Baby’s movement

I’m at a loss as to what to do. Baby’s movements don’t have a patten and never have I’m 33 weeks and Iv been in 5 times now for reduced movement/ non movement. Each time I have gone in baby has been fine and starting kicking away when I got there.

Movements again are reduced Iv tried all the usual stuff and it’s not worked. I just feel like I’m wasting there time as when I get there baby goes to town. How much is to much in regards with movements when will the doctors intervene and do something ?

Thoughts?

Have a son called Oakley (Oakie) and think I’m having another boy…

Thoughts on Harley or Hartley?

I’d love to be able to shorten it if anyone has any suggestions of the best nicknames? Otherwise might need to get back to the drawing board

Just trying to find a good set of names for girl options I’m only 14 weeks and trying to make a decision on at least top two

If you have suggestions I’m open