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Venting (judge free)

What should I do?

My ex is demanding I meet up with his grandmother to drop the kids off for Father’s Day weekend. He has missed 8+ weekend visits that he was supposed to have, hasn’t called in over 7 weeks (to call our 2 year old for his birthday🙄) and hasn’t requested a visit (or rather I say demand a visit) since 2 days before Christmas. He typically calls on holidays/birthdays only, yet pushed for split parenting time in the summer. Not only this but he’s 4 months and almost $2,000 behind on child support. I contacted my attorney left everything unclear offered a separate time he would be available to pick them up to which he refused it was written in the agreement he would have to pick them up. There’s nothing logical that would work with his work schedule that lines up with his parenting time. 2-11pm my concerns also have to deal with his drug use amongst other things involving his girlfriend doing stuff like attempting to get food assistance using our kids names, posting online about some sort of evil possession taking over his family(there’s so much more) , and on top of all that his mother is buddy buddy with the judge. I’m so exhausted. And honestly I’m over it all. I want them to see their father but also I just hope he gets the help he needs.