Hello girlie's.
Found out im pregnant again, lil man is just under 7 months old so a little bit of a shock.
Just looking for any advice with 2 under 2 because I am scared and so so on the fence about keeping. Im not here to debate the pro life/ pro choice argument, we all have our own thoughts and feelings.
I just want advice from the mums already doing it/ done it
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Hello! Single mom of a 20 month age gap here, its fucking tough ngl, even when I have both my parents with me all day its A LOT.
If you and your partner are solid, and want another anyway I'd consider it a blessing to get nappies and sleepless nights out the way. But it does mean a very stressful 3/4 years ahead xx

I think its just hard going to bed each day not feeling like I gave either of them enough attention, especially if I took 5 minutes for myself 😆
I hope you come a decision that makes you all very happy, no matter what that is ❤️

Our youngest two are 20 months apart, not quite like 14 months apart, but we found this gap better than 2 years and 2.5 years apart. It’s nice when they both have a nap and there’s a chance of a little break, it’s also a bit easier to navigate little challenges such as potty training when the youngest one is not a newborn or very young baby. xx

🎊 congrats! Oh I love pregnancies :)
I have an 18 month gap and then a 22 month gap.
Yes it's hard. The older two (now nearly 4 and 2.5) spend A LOT of time fighting but they also know how to entertain themselves. My 6.5m is thank god a very chill baby. But obviously all three have needs and depend on me a lot, so those moments that they all desperately need me there and then get very stressful very fast. But we manage...
Thank you ladies. I already have a 6 year old so I feel like the two closer in age would be beneficial for them too. Im just so freaking scared x