I want out
He makes me feel like 💩 and I’m over it. We live separately and He doesn’t put effort in seeing our 2 month daughter nor help/provide anything for her. Every time I tell him I’m done he says he loves me and just wants his family. Only way he’ll see her though is if I go to his place and I’m staying. I got tired of constantly going to his house so I stopped three weeks ago and he blames me for not seeing his daughter because of it. Meanwhile I argue he can come over to my place or I can drop her off for a little bit. He says no why can’t I be there to be a family. I tell him I don’t want a relationship anymore and he says I’m threatening him with that. Then he’ll say he’ll sign his rights away and just kill him self. I tell him stop talking like that because I take suicidal talk serious. Even though I don’t want to be with him romantically I wouldn’t want bad to happen to him. So I feel stuck because a part of me know it’s just talk but another part of me would be devastated because what if he really does. Idk what to do
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If he wanted to he would and clearly he wants you to do it all. We can’t sit here and hold these boys hands. Their grown they know right from wrong and if they wanna sit here and be spoon fed then they can find it else where. He will sit here and tell you what you wanna hear like I love you we’re gonna be one big happy family but switch up and wanna kill himself when things don’t go his way. He should be mature enough to understand no you don’t want a relationship right now but at the end of the day he’s still the dad and definitely could do the responsibilities of a father. You might not be boyfriend and girlfriend but you can still be mom and dad and not have to have all this conflict especially since you just had your daughter 2 months ago and are still healing. Some things that have helped me come back to reality and stop feeling “bad” is that what would you do or how would you help if your daughter was going through what you are going through right now. You got this mama!!❤️
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