Wtf.
Me and my man was talking the other day About going out friendship etc. He made the comment oh yeah I can't go out with my friends and have a good time but he be feeling bad that i dont have any friends. Thats why most of time he doesn't go out or because I would be home with the kids. That comment rite there made me feel some sort of way. I dont feel ive ever stopped him from doing whateva he wants. Why would he think like that?? I wonder what else he thinks and doesn't tell me. What do me not having friends have to do with him. Im completely fine with the way things are.
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He said he feels bad going out with his friends because you don’t have any and would be left home with the kids? I am a very introspective person and enjoy spending time alone or with my kids. I have always encouraged my husband to go out with his friends or hang out with the neighbors. There have been plenty of times I stay home with our youngest and he takes our oldest to hang out with our neighbors. Even still, he has told me before that he feels guilty going to hang out with his friends. It has taken several times of me telling him that’s how I prefer to spend my time before he actually believed me. I did join this app after moving to a new city though to help make some friends, but I still prefer spending most of my time alone or with my family. I am so busy with work during the week that I need solo quiet time to decompress.
I think he is considering and care for your feelings. I would thank him and reinsure him that he can go out and you won't feel bad at all.
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