Am I overreacting

I found my boyfriend messaging other girls and sending 🍆 pics. So i will admit i was petty and did the same. Well we said we would try and work things out as we dont wanna break our family up. However he refuses to let me know his password anymore and blames it on how he never wants to look at my phone why should I look at his. But whenever I do figure out his password he is still talking to girls and then blames me for looking through his phone like wtf. How is that my fault then I ask why when I throw myself at him and he always tells me later but yet he talks to woman all the time telling them he's lonely like what. It's also my fault for constantly accusing him of doing it so he said wtf I will if i'm already being blamed.

What do i do? I keep saying I wanna be done but then feel like shit afterwards

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Yall don’t trust one another for good reason. Best thing to do is leave. Your kid/s will notice all the bad stuff no matter how hard you try to hide it. Staying together for family is almost always never the right thing to do and it will just waste your life when you could be working on yourself and finding someone who will actually love and respect you. Your man doesn’t. Also, show your children that you love and choose yourself too bc they will grow up making the same mistakes you are cuz you never taught them better.

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Girl leave he for the street literally just left my bd yea I feel bad but you wanna create a healthy environment for your baby

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It doesn't sound like he has any respect for you. The fact that he is still talking to women, what's his goal exactly? He's basically cheating! It's not your fault. He doesn't want you to have his password because he is being secretive and deceiving you. I wouldn't trust him and tbh it sounds like he is breaking your family up himself.

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