We've been together almost 5 years, 2 amazing little boys but now I feel I don't know who he is. We don't spend time together, he's turned really selfish and hardly helps with the boys (he is away most of the week) the most time we spend together is when the boys are in bed and then we just watch tv or go on our phones. We never have sex, he uses every excuse for us not to. He's used the he doesn't want another baby excuse so I went on the pill and now still nothing.
Not sure what to do or say. If I mention it we argue and I'm so tired of that now. Is it the end? Do I just bite the bullet and finish it, I'm miserable when he's home and am starting to prefer him being away...
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I am so sorry that you are dealing with this. I think that maybe you should talk to him first about how you’re feeling and then give him the options you’re open to. Either work on the relationship or end it. You shouldn’t waste anymore time on a man who doesn’t want to be there. You deserve better 🤷🏻♀️