Routine

I need hkep... not sure about routines at all and ive been told I'm offering LG too much milk.

She drinks 7oz in the morning around am, 6-7oz around 12pm and then 8oz at bedtime (6:30-7-30)

Shes in nursery 4 days a week while I work so I'm not sure how much milk they're giving her as sometimes I feel they're giving her too much. She isnt a fan of food and will eat but hwr portions are tiny and she often refuses food if she doesn’t like the texture. Weve only started snacks this month as she wasn't a fan before but now she likes it. I need to get better at giving her fruit snacks or cheeses but as I'm allergic we tend not to have any.

I'm also worried about swapping formula for milk as she doesn't like change. There's a lot of mum guilt, not too much support and I hesitate to ask my partner as it'll become a blaming session or him making me feel worse (unintentionally, but still)

Can anyone offer suggestions? What is your routine? How much milk are your babies on? How much food do they eat? How many snacks? I really want to get better at making her food but she just rejects everything I make and it makes me feel shit honestly, I think in not blending smooth enough but also she needs to get uses to texture so?? Literally lost

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