Partners family crossing a line about our babyās name.
I donāt know if Iām being a bit over sensitive/dramatic.
My baby will be having my partners surname, and his family have chosen the middle name - itās tradition in their family for the first born son to have a particular middle name - I donāt really like the name but I agreed because itās important to them.
I have chosen a first name I really love and my partner has agreed to it because he already has the middle and surname, but his family hate it and are trying to convince me out of it. They keep telling me itās a horrible name and are trying to push other names on me that I donāt like. Iāve tried to explain why I like the name but they just wonāt stop and accept it. Iām finding it quite rude and itās beginning to hurt my feelings. It feels like they donāt care about me having any input in my sonās name at all.
Am I overreacting.. should I just ignore it, should I say something to them or should I consider changing the name since everyone seems to hate it so much?