Saw that my husband is on a “Rate my nude body” sub on Reddit. These girls are anywhere btwn 18-40+ yrs old. 😔 mostly 20’s.
I got heavy after he cheated. I’m not obese, just gained weight. I’m much softer and fuller now, I have a tummy, my thighs rub together.
I don’t look like these women anymore.
My heart hurts so bad.
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Oh my gosh that sounds heartbreaking. I am sorry you're going through this 😔

What do Beyonce, Meg the Stallion, Shakira, Jennifer Anniston, Halle Berry to name but a few have in common? All beautiful women, wildly successful, one even a billionaire - all cheated on.
Stop comparing yourself to other women! You could literally be a 10, and he would STILL cheat on you. Your husband cheating is a slur on HIS character, piss poor upbringing and morals in the toilet. It has ZERO bearing on what you look like. Stop putting yourself down!
Why do you stay with such a disgusting POS? He will never change.

Wow, this is terrible. I didn’t even know stuff like that existed. So sorry you’re going through this.
There’s rarely a such thing as a man only committing adultery once. Most of them keep cheating, unfortunately. Don’t blame your weight gain for it. There’s no justifiable reason to cheat on anyone, ever. Him cheating is HIS personal choice, based on HIS morals/values, NOT a reflection of you. If you haven’t already, please make plans for a safe exit bc you’re never going to stop feeling insecure due to his shitty behavior. Men rarely give us the grace we give them.